If you've ever watched When Harry Met Sally with your spouse/ex, you can relate. We all did that extra chuckle at the diner scene. Our significant other says, "what's so funny...I don't get it?" and we have that gleam in our eye, as we say, "oh, I don't know". Knowing full well the next time we have sex we know we'll have to do an "extra" good job of faking it, least he suspect.
Whether you've been married, living together or dating, sex is a part of every relationship. Good sex is a part of every Good relationship. And do we need to say it? Bad sex is also a part of every BAD relationship. Sex isn't everything, but it has been said to be the "barometer of a relationship" for a reason. It's also in the Top 5 reason that couples fight. Why? It's about love, it's about pleasure... everyone wants those, right? It's also about babies, it's about control, it's about jealousy, it's about self-esteem, it's about communication. That's why.
I waited 40 years to discover my sexual self. And I learned a little about communication along the way. Divorce can be more than hurt and loss. It can be about taking a step back to examine your life. It can be about discovery. And boy...some of the discoveries can be pretty nice!
Next blog: Where is your G Spot? Do you even know?
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