CowgirlKathi
Gender: Female
Location: New Windsor, MD
Relationship Status: Committed Partners
Birthday: March 24th 1953
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Member Since: January 4th 2010
My Story:
My story is too long to put here, but in a nutshell, after 30 years together (23 of them married) my husband looked at me one day and announced that he "didn't love me anymore; had no feelings for our marriage anymore and was getting out." Needless to say, I was stunned. Three weeks later when he refused to get into counseling with me or without me, I gave him his walking papers. That was August 29, 2005.
It took 18 Months of Hell to divorce him, but once I learned the real reason behind his "unhappiness" (her first and last name) I was fueled with righteous anger! Found myself a good therapist and a great attorney. The divorce was finally final on March 15, 2007 and I managed to "take him to the cleaners" in the process.
Two years to the day from the time he moved out, a miracle happened -- I met the Man of My Dreams on eHarmony.com and the rest is history!
"Living Well is the BEST Revenge!" and I am living better now than I ever imagined possible. No more walking on eggshells, no more fear of abandonment, no more being treated like a second-class citizen.
I promised God that if I got through the dark tunnel of divorce with my sanity intact that I would use the Wisdom of My Experience to help others who were going through the same thing. That's why I am here!
Survey Responses
What went wrong?Infidelity:, Poor Communication:, Lack of Commitment:, Lack of Conflict Resolution:, Other:
How many years have you been divorced?almost 3 years
Would you remarry?Yes
How many years were you married (or committed together)?30 years together; 23 married
At what age did you get divorced?20 and 54
How many children did you have with your ex-spouse?none
How many times have you been officially divorced?twice
How many times have you been married?twice
Education: Some College
Religion: Spiritual but not religious
Goal you would like to achieve this year: Secure a good individual health insurance policy and lose 10 pounds!
What type of relationship do you have with your ex-spouse: Poor: we can't even look at each other
Why am I here: Help
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AnnMarie
Atlanta, GA
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