Frenchie

Frenchie

Gender: Female

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Relationship Status: Separated

Birthday: April 3rd 1980

Sexual Orientation: Straight

Member Since: February 28th 2010

My Story:

In a common-law relationship for 7 years. Intimacy issues were part of the relationship for over 6 years. We separated on Feb. 17, 2010 (exactly 7 years and 10 days since we met). I am in a lot of pain, even though I was unhappy for many years. I am struggling to let go of the hope that if only he went to sex therapy we could be happy together.

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When a Simple Status just doesn't cover it:Separated & Miserable

What went wrong?Poor Communication:, Lack of Commitment:, Sexual Incompatability:, Other:

How many years were you married (or committed together)?7

How many times have you been married?never; but common-law for 7 years

Education: PhD / Post Doctoral

Religion: Agnostic

Goal you would like to achieve this year: Finish my PhD dissertation and being able to support myself through it, despite the breakdown of my relationship

Why am I here: Help, Meet others in my situation, Vent frustration

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  • Frenchie

    Frenchie (5 months ago) Hi everyone, I just signed up and am wondering if any of you would share their experience about separating over a lack of sex / intimacy. This made me unhappy and depressed for over 6 years, and now that we are separating, I am miserable and wondering if I should have waited longer, for him to go to therapy.

    • johnlove

      johnlove (3 months ago) Hello dear one, i hope to meet a noble and clever woman who will make my life more interesting and add more sense to it. I respect old traditional value of family life very highly, and I know I will be a good husband for my life-partner,age intelligent with a good sense of humor. I would like to meet a nice woman with whom I could feel happy and comfortable and who will be my best friend and faithful life-partner for the rest of my life. I am ready to be a good husband for her and to give all my love to him till the end of the road. Here is my email: [johnford4real50@yahoo.com] I am waiting to get a reply from you. Remember distance or colour does not matter but true love matters alot in life. I will stop here and be waiting to here from you soon in my main box. Bye for now. And remain blessed. Yours Sincerely,

    • Frenchie

      Frenchie (5 months ago) HI Blondeshavemorefun, I really enjoyed chatting with you the other day, and it's so sweet of you to check in on me. I have tried to take care of myself, though I've still been doing a fair bit of moping around and not getting out of my apartment before late afternoon. But I'm trying - I wen to a yoga class, which always helps me with anxiety and stress, and have seen a friend. I feel like I'm on a ride wearing blindfolds and have no idea what's coming next, I'm still going through a lot of ups and downs, but it's only been 2 weeks today since I asked him to leave. What is bothering me is that he is ambivalent about what might happen next. We have agreed to separate, but, as I told you, it's supposed to be 'open-ended.' The problem is that I get the impression that the only 'plan' is to let time go by, he hasn't asked me to give him time in order for him to get help, or something. With a little more clarity when I stop running the emotional gamut everyday, I may realize that I simply want to move on with no qualms. Right now I still feel that glimmer of hope holding me back. Thank you for your positivity. I do have to 'nurture my wounded self' as you put it so nicely.

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      Frenchie (5 months ago) Hi Dael 623, I'm sorry that you have had to deal with this for so long. You must loved her dearly. The last 6 years have brought me down so much, it's like I've become a different person, all shrivelled up and half the person I used to be. I haven't read your story yet, but I understand from your post above that you have not left her yet. Have you had affairs? Or did you live with the lack of intimacy all this time without being unfaithful? It's never too late to do what's right for you and rescue yourself from a relationship that was not fulfilling. I'm trying to convince myself of the same right now, even though part of me still hopes he would do whatever is necessary not to lose me.

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63SELECT `Events`.`event_id`, `Events`.`creator_member_id`, `Events`.`access_level`, `Events`.`event_name`, `Events`.`start_date`, `Events`.`end_date`, `Events`.`addr1`, `Events`.`addr2`, `Events`.`city`, `Events`.`state`, `Events`.`zip`, `Events`.`description`, `Events`.`created`, `Events`.`modified`, `Events`.`deleted`, `EventAttendee`.`id`, `EventAttendee`.`invite_key`, `EventAttendee`.`event_id`, `EventAttendee`.`member_id`, `EventAttendee`.`status`, `EventAttendee`.`guest_email` FROM `events` AS `Events` JOIN `event_attendees` AS `EventAttendee` ON (`EventAttendee`.`member_id` = 2146 AND `EventAttendee`.`event_id` = `Events`.`event_id`) WHERE 1 = 1 LIMIT 5000
64SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2265 110
65SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = 21231 1124
66SELECT `RelationshipStatus`.`id`, `RelationshipStatus`.`name`, `RelationshipStatus`.`created`, `RelationshipStatus`.`modified` FROM `relationship_statuses` AS `RelationshipStatus` WHERE `RelationshipStatus`.`id` = 1 110
67SELECT `ProfileImage`.`id`, `ProfileImage`.`image_path`, `ProfileImage`.`thumbnail_path`, `ProfileImage`.`member_id`, `ProfileImage`.`profile_image`, `ProfileImage`.`album_id`, `ProfileImage`.`page_id`, `ProfileImage`.`created`, `ProfileImage`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `ProfileImage` WHERE `ProfileImage`.`member_id` = 2265 AND `ProfileImage`.`profile_image` = 1 110
68SELECT `Events`.`event_id`, `Events`.`creator_member_id`, `Events`.`access_level`, `Events`.`event_name`, `Events`.`start_date`, `Events`.`end_date`, `Events`.`addr1`, `Events`.`addr2`, `Events`.`city`, `Events`.`state`, `Events`.`zip`, `Events`.`description`, `Events`.`created`, `Events`.`modified`, `Events`.`deleted`, `EventAttendee`.`id`, `EventAttendee`.`invite_key`, `EventAttendee`.`event_id`, `EventAttendee`.`member_id`, `EventAttendee`.`status`, `EventAttendee`.`guest_email` FROM `events` AS `Events` JOIN `event_attendees` AS `EventAttendee` ON (`EventAttendee`.`member_id` = 2265 AND `EventAttendee`.`event_id` = `Events`.`event_id`) WHERE 1 = 1 LIMIT 5000
69SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `friends` AS `Friends` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`Friends`.`friend_id` = `Member`.`id`) WHERE `member_id` = 2266 AND `rejected` = 0 AND `ignored` = 0 110
70DESCRIBE `blogs`19191
71DESCRIBE `blog_series`19191
72DESCRIBE `blogs_comments`770
73DESCRIBE `tags`440
74DESCRIBE `blogs_tags`220
75SELECT `Blog`.`id`, `Blog`.`external_id`, `Blog`.`member_id`, `Blog`.`title`, `Blog`.`page_seo`, `Blog`.`description`, `Blog`.`tags`, `Blog`.`metatitle`, `Blog`.`metadescription`, `Blog`.`metakeywords`, `Blog`.`featured`, `Blog`.`published`, `Blog`.`original_content`, `Blog`.`content`, `Blog`.`created`, `Blog`.`modified`, `Blog`.`deleted`, `Blog`.`blog_series_id`, `Blog`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blogs` AS `Blog` LEFT JOIN `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` ON (`Blog`.`blog_series_id` = `BlogSeries`.`id`) WHERE `Blog`.`member_id` = 2266 ORDER BY `Blog`.`created` DESC LIMIT 5110
76SELECT `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` WHERE `BlogSeries`.`id` = 100009 110
77SELECT `Tag`.`id`, `Tag`.`tag`, `Tag`.`created`, `Tag`.`modified`, `BlogsTag`.`blog_id`, `BlogsTag`.`tag_id` FROM `tags` AS `Tag` JOIN `blogs_tags` AS `BlogsTag` ON (`BlogsTag`.`blog_id` = 92 AND `BlogsTag`.`tag_id` = `Tag`.`id`) WHERE 1 = 1 000
78SELECT `SurveyAnswer`.`id`, `SurveyAnswer`.`survey_question_id` FROM `survey_answers` AS `SurveyAnswer` WHERE `member_id` = 2266 13131
79SELECT `SurveyQuestion`.`id`, `SurveyQuestion`.`question`, `SurveyQuestion`.`survey_question_type_id`, `SurveyQuestion`.`hidden`, `SurveyQuestion`.`custom_class`, `SurveyQuestion`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestion`.`created`, `SurveyQuestion`.`modified`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_questions` AS `SurveyQuestion` LEFT JOIN `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` ON (`SurveyQuestion`.`survey_question_type_id` = `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`) WHERE `SurveyQuestion`.`id` IN (1, 2, 2, 2, 2, 10, 11, 12, 14, 16, 16, 16, 6) 880
80SELECT `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` WHERE `SurveyQuestionType`.`id` = 1 110
81SELECT `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` WHERE `SurveyQuestionType`.`id` = 3 110
82SELECT `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` WHERE `SurveyQuestionType`.`id` = 4 110
83SELECT `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` WHERE `SurveyQuestionType`.`id` = 4 110
84SELECT `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` WHERE `SurveyQuestionType`.`id` = 1 110
85SELECT `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` WHERE `SurveyQuestionType`.`id` = 1 110
86SELECT `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` WHERE `SurveyQuestionType`.`id` = 5 110
87SELECT `SurveyQuestionType`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`input_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`display_element`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionType`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_types` AS `SurveyQuestionType` WHERE `SurveyQuestionType`.`id` = 3 110
88SELECT `SurveyAnswer`.`id`, `SurveyAnswer`.`answer`, `SurveyAnswer`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyAnswer`.`member_id`, `SurveyAnswer`.`created`, `SurveyAnswer`.`modified` FROM `survey_answers` AS `SurveyAnswer` WHERE `SurveyAnswer`.`member_id` = 2266 AND `SurveyAnswer`.`survey_question_id` IN (1, 2, 6, 10, 11, 12, 14, 16) 13131
89SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 7 110
90SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 21 110
91SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 24 110
92SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 25 110
93SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 30 110
94SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 'never; but common-law for 7 years' 000
95SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 37 110
96SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 39 110
97SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 'Finish my PhD dissertation and being able to support myself through it, despite the breakdown of my relationship' 000
98SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 72 110
99SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 73 110
100SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 74 110
101SELECT `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`description`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`sort_order`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`created`, `SurveyQuestionOption`.`modified` FROM `survey_question_options` AS `SurveyQuestionOption` WHERE `SurveyQuestionOption`.`id` = 7 110
102SELECT `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id`, `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted`, `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`BlogSeries`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `images` AS `Image` ON (`BlogSeries`.`image_id` = `Image`.`id`) WHERE `BlogSeries`.`member_id` = 2266 AND `BlogSeries`.`deleted` = 0 ORDER BY `BlogSeries`.`modified` Desc LIMIT 5110
103SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2266 110
104SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = 92100 0024
105SELECT `RelationshipStatus`.`id`, `RelationshipStatus`.`name`, `RelationshipStatus`.`created`, `RelationshipStatus`.`modified` FROM `relationship_statuses` AS `RelationshipStatus` WHERE `RelationshipStatus`.`id` = 2 110
106SELECT `ProfileImage`.`id`, `ProfileImage`.`image_path`, `ProfileImage`.`thumbnail_path`, `ProfileImage`.`member_id`, `ProfileImage`.`profile_image`, `ProfileImage`.`album_id`, `ProfileImage`.`page_id`, `ProfileImage`.`created`, `ProfileImage`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `ProfileImage` WHERE `ProfileImage`.`member_id` = 2266 AND `ProfileImage`.`profile_image` = 1 000
107SELECT `SurveyAnswer`.`id`, `SurveyAnswer`.`answer`, `SurveyAnswer`.`survey_question_id`, `SurveyAnswer`.`member_id`, `SurveyAnswer`.`created`, `SurveyAnswer`.`modified` FROM `survey_answers` AS `SurveyAnswer` WHERE `SurveyAnswer`.`member_id` = (2266) 13131
108SELECT `Events`.`event_id`, `Events`.`creator_member_id`, `Events`.`access_level`, `Events`.`event_name`, `Events`.`start_date`, `Events`.`end_date`, `Events`.`addr1`, `Events`.`addr2`, `Events`.`city`, `Events`.`state`, `Events`.`zip`, `Events`.`description`, `Events`.`created`, `Events`.`modified`, `Events`.`deleted`, `EventAttendee`.`id`, `EventAttendee`.`invite_key`, `EventAttendee`.`event_id`, `EventAttendee`.`member_id`, `EventAttendee`.`status`, `EventAttendee`.`guest_email` FROM `events` AS `Events` JOIN `event_attendees` AS `EventAttendee` ON (`EventAttendee`.`member_id` = 2266 AND `EventAttendee`.`event_id` = `Events`.`event_id`) WHERE 1 = 1 LIMIT 5000
109SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`id` = 0 000
110SELECT `Blog`.`id`, `Blog`.`external_id`, `Blog`.`member_id`, `Blog`.`title`, `Blog`.`page_seo`, `Blog`.`description`, `Blog`.`tags`, `Blog`.`metatitle`, `Blog`.`metadescription`, `Blog`.`metakeywords`, `Blog`.`featured`, `Blog`.`published`, `Blog`.`original_content`, `Blog`.`content`, `Blog`.`created`, `Blog`.`modified`, `Blog`.`deleted`, `Blog`.`blog_series_id`, `Blog`.`top_count` FROM `blogs` AS `Blog` WHERE `Blog`.`blog_series_id` = (100009) 111
111SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2266 110
112SELECT `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` WHERE `BlogSeries`.`id` = 100009 110
113SELECT `BlogsComment`.`id`, `BlogsComment`.`text`, `BlogsComment`.`blog_id`, `BlogsComment`.`member_id`, `BlogsComment`.`created`, `BlogsComment`.`modified`, `BlogsComment`.`deleted` FROM `blogs_comments` AS `BlogsComment` WHERE `BlogsComment`.`deleted` = 0 AND `BlogsComment`.`blog_id` = (92) 110
114SELECT `Tag`.`id`, `Tag`.`tag`, `Tag`.`created`, `Tag`.`modified`, `BlogsTag`.`blog_id`, `BlogsTag`.`tag_id` FROM `tags` AS `Tag` JOIN `blogs_tags` AS `BlogsTag` ON (`BlogsTag`.`blog_id` = 92 AND `BlogsTag`.`tag_id` = `Tag`.`id`) WHERE 1 = 1 000
115SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`BlogSeries`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `images` AS `Image` ON (`BlogSeries`.`image_id` = `Image`.`id`) WHERE `BlogSeries`.`member_id` = 2266 110
116SELECT `PhotoCollection`.`id`, `PhotoCollection`.`member_id`, `PhotoCollection`.`collection_name`, `PhotoCollection`.`collection_description`, `PhotoCollection`.`access_level`, `PhotoCollection`.`coverphoto_id`, `PhotoCollection`.`type_id`, `PhotoCollection`.`reference_id`, `PhotoCollection`.`master`, `PhotoCollection`.`created`, `PhotoCollection`.`modified` FROM `photo_collections` AS `PhotoCollection` WHERE `member_id` = 2266 AND `type_id` < 3 000
117SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`deleted` = 0 ORDER BY `Member`.`created` DESC LIMIT 4443
118SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 2341 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1000
119SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '80129' LIMIT 1110
120SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 2340 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1000
121SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '32304' LIMIT 1110
122SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 2339 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1000
123SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '10001' LIMIT 1110
124SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 2338 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1000
125SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '92025' LIMIT 1110
126SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`deleted` = 0 ORDER BY `last_active` DESC LIMIT 5553
127SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 2341 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1000
128SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '80129' LIMIT 1110
129SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 2153 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1110
130SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '44114' LIMIT 1110
131SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 2340 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1000
132SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '32304' LIMIT 1110
133SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 2339 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1000
134SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '10001' LIMIT 1110
135SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`member_id` = 780 AND `Image`.`profile_image` = 1 LIMIT 1000
136SELECT `Zipcode`.`id`, `Zipcode`.`zip`, `Zipcode`.`latitude`, `Zipcode`.`longitude`, `Zipcode`.`city`, `Zipcode`.`state`, `Zipcode`.`fullstate`, `Zipcode`.`county`, `Zipcode`.`zipclass` FROM `zipcodes` AS `Zipcode` WHERE `Zipcode`.`zip` = '23322' LIMIT 1110
137DESCRIBE `pages`19191
138DESCRIBE `pages_comments`660
139DESCRIBE `pages_tags`220
140SELECT `Blog`.`id`, `Blog`.`external_id`, `Blog`.`member_id`, `Blog`.`title`, `Blog`.`page_seo`, `Blog`.`description`, `Blog`.`tags`, `Blog`.`metatitle`, `Blog`.`metadescription`, `Blog`.`metakeywords`, `Blog`.`featured`, `Blog`.`published`, `Blog`.`original_content`, `Blog`.`content`, `Blog`.`created`, `Blog`.`modified`, `Blog`.`deleted`, `Blog`.`blog_series_id`, `Blog`.`top_count`, `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blogs` AS `Blog` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`Blog`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` ON (`Blog`.`blog_series_id` = `BlogSeries`.`id`) WHERE 1 = 1 ORDER BY `Blog`.`created` DESC LIMIT 5551
141SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2149 110
142SELECT `ProfileImage`.`id`, `ProfileImage`.`image_path`, `ProfileImage`.`thumbnail_path`, `ProfileImage`.`member_id`, `ProfileImage`.`profile_image`, `ProfileImage`.`album_id`, `ProfileImage`.`page_id`, `ProfileImage`.`created`, `ProfileImage`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `ProfileImage` WHERE `ProfileImage`.`member_id` = 2149 AND `ProfileImage`.`profile_image` = 1 110
143SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2181 110
144SELECT `ProfileImage`.`id`, `ProfileImage`.`image_path`, `ProfileImage`.`thumbnail_path`, `ProfileImage`.`member_id`, `ProfileImage`.`profile_image`, `ProfileImage`.`album_id`, `ProfileImage`.`page_id`, `ProfileImage`.`created`, `ProfileImage`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `ProfileImage` WHERE `ProfileImage`.`member_id` = 2181 AND `ProfileImage`.`profile_image` = 1 110
145SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2307 110
146SELECT `ProfileImage`.`id`, `ProfileImage`.`image_path`, `ProfileImage`.`thumbnail_path`, `ProfileImage`.`member_id`, `ProfileImage`.`profile_image`, `ProfileImage`.`album_id`, `ProfileImage`.`page_id`, `ProfileImage`.`created`, `ProfileImage`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `ProfileImage` WHERE `ProfileImage`.`member_id` = 2307 AND `ProfileImage`.`profile_image` = 1 110
147SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2307 110
148SELECT `ProfileImage`.`id`, `ProfileImage`.`image_path`, `ProfileImage`.`thumbnail_path`, `ProfileImage`.`member_id`, `ProfileImage`.`profile_image`, `ProfileImage`.`album_id`, `ProfileImage`.`page_id`, `ProfileImage`.`created`, `ProfileImage`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `ProfileImage` WHERE `ProfileImage`.`member_id` = 2307 AND `ProfileImage`.`profile_image` = 1 110
149SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2307 110
150SELECT `ProfileImage`.`id`, `ProfileImage`.`image_path`, `ProfileImage`.`thumbnail_path`, `ProfileImage`.`member_id`, `ProfileImage`.`profile_image`, `ProfileImage`.`album_id`, `ProfileImage`.`page_id`, `ProfileImage`.`created`, `ProfileImage`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `ProfileImage` WHERE `ProfileImage`.`member_id` = 2307 AND `ProfileImage`.`profile_image` = 1 110
151SELECT `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` WHERE `BlogSeries`.`id` = 7 110
152SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2149 110
153SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`id` = 40 110
154SELECT `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` WHERE `BlogSeries`.`id` = 13 110
155SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2181 110
156SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`id` = 56 110
157SELECT `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` WHERE `BlogSeries`.`id` = 100014 110
158SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2307 110
159SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`id` = 195 110
160SELECT `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` WHERE `BlogSeries`.`id` = 100014 110
161SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2307 110
162SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`id` = 195 110
163SELECT `BlogSeries`.`id`, `BlogSeries`.`member_id`, `BlogSeries`.`name`, `BlogSeries`.`description`, `BlogSeries`.`page_seo`, `BlogSeries`.`metatitle`, `BlogSeries`.`metadescription`, `BlogSeries`.`metakeywords`, `BlogSeries`.`featured`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsored`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_dn`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_name`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_message`, `BlogSeries`.`sponsor_url`, `BlogSeries`.`top_count`, `BlogSeries`.`created`, `BlogSeries`.`modified`, `BlogSeries`.`deleted`, `BlogSeries`.`image_id` FROM `blog_series` AS `BlogSeries` WHERE `BlogSeries`.`id` = 100014 110
164SELECT `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted` FROM `members` AS `Member` WHERE `Member`.`id` = 2307 110
165SELECT `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `images` AS `Image` WHERE `Image`.`id` = 195 110
166SELECT `Tag`.`id`, `Tag`.`tag`, `Tag`.`created`, `Tag`.`modified`, `BlogsTag`.`blog_id`, `BlogsTag`.`tag_id` FROM `tags` AS `Tag` JOIN `blogs_tags` AS `BlogsTag` ON (`BlogsTag`.`blog_id` IN (114, 113, 112, 111, 110) AND `BlogsTag`.`tag_id` = `Tag`.`id`) WHERE 1 = 1 16160
167SELECT `Events`.`event_id`, `Events`.`creator_member_id`, `Events`.`access_level`, `Events`.`event_name`, `Events`.`start_date`, `Events`.`end_date`, `Events`.`addr1`, `Events`.`addr2`, `Events`.`city`, `Events`.`state`, `Events`.`zip`, `Events`.`description`, `Events`.`created`, `Events`.`modified`, `Events`.`deleted` FROM `events` AS `Events` WHERE `Events`.`start_date` >= 1280376000 AND `Events`.`deleted` = 0 ORDER BY `Events`.`event_name` ASC LIMIT 5000
168SELECT `Page`.`id`, `Page`.`title`, `Page`.`page_seo`, `Page`.`category_id`, `Page`.`subcategory_id`, `Page`.`description`, `Page`.`content`, `Page`.`metatitle`, `Page`.`metadescription`, `Page`.`metakeywords`, `Page`.`tags`, `Page`.`published`, `Page`.`featured`, `Page`.`system`, `Page`.`sitemap`, `Page`.`member_id`, `Page`.`created`, `Page`.`modified`, `Page`.`top_article_count`, `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted`, `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `pages` AS `Page` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`Page`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `images` AS `Image` ON (`Image`.`page_id` = `Page`.`id`) WHERE `featured` = 1 AND `published` = 1 ORDER BY `Page`.`top_article_count` ASC, `Page`.`created` DESC LIMIT 5554
169SELECT `PagesComment`.`id`, `PagesComment`.`page_id`, `PagesComment`.`member_id`, `PagesComment`.`text`, `PagesComment`.`created`, `PagesComment`.`deleted` FROM `pages_comments` AS `PagesComment` WHERE `PagesComment`.`page_id` IN (100063, 100061, 100060, 100066, 100064) ORDER BY `PagesComment`.`created` DESC 000
170SELECT `Tag`.`id`, `Tag`.`tag`, `Tag`.`created`, `Tag`.`modified`, `PagesTag`.`page_id`, `PagesTag`.`tag_id` FROM `tags` AS `Tag` JOIN `pages_tags` AS `PagesTag` ON (`PagesTag`.`page_id` IN (100063, 100061, 100060, 100066, 100064) AND `PagesTag`.`tag_id` = `Tag`.`id`) WHERE 1 = 1 38381
171UPDATE `pages` AS `Page` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`Page`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) SET `Page`.`top_article_count` = 9937 WHERE `Page`.`id` = 10006310
172SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `friends` AS `Friend` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Requestor` ON (`Friend`.`member_id` = `Requestor`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Requestee` ON (`Friend`.`friend_id` = `Requestee`.`id`) WHERE `Friend`.`approved` = 0 AND `Friend`.`rejected` = 0 AND `Friend`.`ignored` = 0 AND `Friend`.`friend_id` IS NULL 111
173SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `friends` AS `Friend` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Requestor` ON (`Friend`.`member_id` = `Requestor`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Requestee` ON (`Friend`.`friend_id` = `Requestee`.`id`) WHERE `Friend`.`approved` = 0 AND `Friend`.`rejected` = 0 AND `Friend`.`ignored` = 0 AND `Friend`.`friend_id` IS NULL AND `Friend`.`viewed` = 0 110
174DESCRIBE `he_said_she_saids`881
175DESCRIBE `he_said_she_saids_comments`880
176SELECT `HeSaidSheSaid`.`id`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`page_seo`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`question`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`hesaid_text`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`shesaid_text`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`published`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`created`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`modified` FROM `he_said_she_saids` AS `HeSaidSheSaid` WHERE 1 = 1 ORDER BY `created` DESC LIMIT 1110
177SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `he_said_she_saids_comments` AS `HeSaidSheSaidsComment` LEFT JOIN `he_said_she_saids` AS `HeSaidSheSaid` ON (`HeSaidSheSaidsComment`.`he_said_she_said_id` = `HeSaidSheSaid`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`HeSaidSheSaidsComment`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) WHERE `he_said_she_said_id` = 5 AND `comment_type` = 1 110
178SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `he_said_she_saids_comments` AS `HeSaidSheSaidsComment` LEFT JOIN `he_said_she_saids` AS `HeSaidSheSaid` ON (`HeSaidSheSaidsComment`.`he_said_she_said_id` = `HeSaidSheSaid`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`HeSaidSheSaidsComment`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) WHERE `he_said_she_said_id` = 5 AND `comment_type` = 2 110