Is it really true? The old saying that women hit their sexual peak at 40? Cause if that is true, then I must be on the down side of the hill.
I’ve heard that men reach theirs at 18. What? NOT my husband……..he has never lost his. At 19, when we met, he wanted it all the time and now 26 years later at the age of 45, he still wants it all the time. There never has been a lull in his sex drive. Mine has died! I swear it has. The poor man is probably sick and tired of hearing “no” or “not now, later” or “my stomach isn’t feeling well”.
When I was younger, I wanted it constantly. Every single, freaking day! Now, I’m good with once a week . It’s not that I don’t want it, I do. It’s either, stress, too tired, too busy or I just feel really fat at that moment. And this man never gives up! He jokes about sex, he makes gestures, moves, and touches (you get the idea) EVERY DAY! He is like the freaking Energizer Bunny!
I truly think that for me, the stress of money, the fact that I have been overweight for years (I am down 57 pounds at the moment and he is ever encouraging), the issues with our son the last couple of years, have just kinda worn me down. I want it, I love it! I just seem to find excuses these days to not have it. It has nothing to do with him, I love him and I love being with him. I LOVE sex! I know it sounds crazy, but I do. I think about it all the time too! It’s just that when it comes down to actually doing it, I kinda wimp out. When we are making love, I’m totally into it and love every second of it. It’s just like my engine just needs a jump now and again (no pun intended).
In a room full of ladies, when talk comes to the bedroom, I know I am not alone. We all let the stress of hardships, frustrations at our partner , and everyday life get in the way of having a good sex life. However, I know that this shared intimacy is a bond that holds us together. I know that I feel closer to my husband when we have this time together. And as I feel better about myself and my body, I want him be able to appreciate the energy that can bring to our sex life.
So, I have made a plan to seduce my husband, to try and bring my libido back to life! I don’t think he will mind, do you?
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