There's No EX in Parenting

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By: MomOfTwo

My Ex and I have shared custody of our two beautiful children. I've been told by friends and family that we are a great example of when it can work. I wanted to share some of what we do and why with others, so that they can achieve happiness and peace with their decision to divorce with kids.

  • The College Fund

    Posted 03-09-2010

    So the past few years since the divorce have been about sacrifice for me. I made the choice to leave the comfort of a two-income family

    » Read more

  • Structure and Flexibility

    Posted 02-08-2010

    If you think marriage is a commitment, making the final agreement for divorce and child custody can seems like it is cast in concrete forever

    » Read more

  • Sharing my Mom Title

    Posted 01-11-2010

    I've always been pretty good at sharing. But I've discovered there is one thing that I will have to work on a bit. Sharing my title of "Mom".

    » Read more

  • All I want for Christmas is My Two Parents

    Posted 12-15-2009

    "What holiday traditions do you have?" My son wrote, "Switching between my Mom and Dad." WHAT?

    » Read more

  • Custody starts with C

    Posted 11-21-2009

    Custody starts with "C" And "C" is for Children. It doesn't start with "M" for Mom or "D" for Dad. This is a good mantra to say to yourself as you start down this journey of Divorced with Kids.

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67SELECT `Page`.`id`, `Page`.`title`, `Page`.`page_seo`, `Page`.`category_id`, `Page`.`subcategory_id`, `Page`.`description`, `Page`.`content`, `Page`.`metatitle`, `Page`.`metadescription`, `Page`.`metakeywords`, `Page`.`tags`, `Page`.`published`, `Page`.`featured`, `Page`.`system`, `Page`.`sitemap`, `Page`.`member_id`, `Page`.`created`, `Page`.`modified`, `Page`.`top_article_count`, `Member`.`id`, `Member`.`username`, `Member`.`password`, `Member`.`email`, `Member`.`gender`, `Member`.`zip_code`, `Member`.`relationship_status_id`, `Member`.`registration_key`, `Member`.`verified`, `Member`.`date_of_birth`, `Member`.`sexual_orientation`, `Member`.`story`, `Member`.`first_name`, `Member`.`last_name`, `Member`.`created`, `Member`.`modified`, `Member`.`last_active`, `Member`.`display_name`, `Member`.`super_admin`, `Member`.`deleted`, `Image`.`id`, `Image`.`image_path`, `Image`.`thumbnail_path`, `Image`.`member_id`, `Image`.`profile_image`, `Image`.`album_id`, `Image`.`page_id`, `Image`.`created`, `Image`.`modified` FROM `pages` AS `Page` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`Page`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `images` AS `Image` ON (`Image`.`page_id` = `Page`.`id`) WHERE `featured` = 1 AND `published` = 1 ORDER BY `Page`.`top_article_count` ASC, `Page`.`created` DESC LIMIT 5448
68SELECT `PagesComment`.`id`, `PagesComment`.`page_id`, `PagesComment`.`member_id`, `PagesComment`.`text`, `PagesComment`.`created`, `PagesComment`.`deleted` FROM `pages_comments` AS `PagesComment` WHERE `PagesComment`.`page_id` IN (100071, 100070, 100069, 100068) ORDER BY `PagesComment`.`created` DESC 000
69SELECT `Tag`.`id`, `Tag`.`tag`, `Tag`.`created`, `Tag`.`modified`, `PagesTag`.`page_id`, `PagesTag`.`tag_id` FROM `tags` AS `Tag` JOIN `pages_tags` AS `PagesTag` ON (`PagesTag`.`page_id` IN (100071, 100070, 100069, 100068) AND `PagesTag`.`tag_id` = `Tag`.`id`) WHERE 1 = 1 12120
70UPDATE `pages` AS `Page` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`Page`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) SET `Page`.`top_article_count` = 9620 WHERE `Page`.`id` = 10007111
71SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `friends` AS `Friend` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Requestor` ON (`Friend`.`member_id` = `Requestor`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Requestee` ON (`Friend`.`friend_id` = `Requestee`.`id`) WHERE `Friend`.`approved` = 0 AND `Friend`.`rejected` = 0 AND `Friend`.`ignored` = 0 AND `Friend`.`friend_id` IS NULL 110
72SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `friends` AS `Friend` LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Requestor` ON (`Friend`.`member_id` = `Requestor`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Requestee` ON (`Friend`.`friend_id` = `Requestee`.`id`) WHERE `Friend`.`approved` = 0 AND `Friend`.`rejected` = 0 AND `Friend`.`ignored` = 0 AND `Friend`.`friend_id` IS NULL AND `Friend`.`viewed` = 0 110
73SELECT `HeSaidSheSaid`.`id`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`page_seo`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`question`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`hesaid_text`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`shesaid_text`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`published`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`created`, `HeSaidSheSaid`.`modified` FROM `he_said_she_saids` AS `HeSaidSheSaid` WHERE 1 = 1 ORDER BY `created` DESC LIMIT 1110
74SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `he_said_she_saids_comments` AS `HeSaidSheSaidsComment` LEFT JOIN `he_said_she_saids` AS `HeSaidSheSaid` ON (`HeSaidSheSaidsComment`.`he_said_she_said_id` = `HeSaidSheSaid`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`HeSaidSheSaidsComment`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) WHERE `he_said_she_said_id` = 5 AND `comment_type` = 1 110
75SELECT COUNT(*) AS `count` FROM `he_said_she_saids_comments` AS `HeSaidSheSaidsComment` LEFT JOIN `he_said_she_saids` AS `HeSaidSheSaid` ON (`HeSaidSheSaidsComment`.`he_said_she_said_id` = `HeSaidSheSaid`.`id`) LEFT JOIN `members` AS `Member` ON (`HeSaidSheSaidsComment`.`member_id` = `Member`.`id`) WHERE `he_said_she_said_id` = 5 AND `comment_type` = 2 110