takn4granted
Gender: Female
Location: Partlow, VA
Relationship Status: Married
Birthday: December 31st 1969
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Member Since: January 4th 2010
My Story:
I hand delivered my teenage-sweetheart my wedding invitation hoping he'd say he wanted to be w/me, he abdicated by saying to his dad "guess we gotta bring a shotgun to...". 4 yrs later after my physically abusive husband and i separated/divorced i wish i had known that a verbally abusive, emotionally destructive abdicating person can even be who you think is your soul mate! For 22yrs i've been waiting for the "good-hearted" man i thought he was to stop being scared to let out his love for me, only to realize that he's already being the person he is , and whatever love is in his heart is already out & fully demonstrated very effeceintly if you ask him. I take some comfort in knowing that although i have only 1 happy memory, when he looks back he has such an innumerable amount of memories of my tlc he'll never find another to compare. While my heart aches, not understanding why someone who truely in thier mind loves you can be such a selfish,cruel , taker not even appreciating all you give to return any loving to you, after the pain subsides of not yet being loved, although loving so deeply i still have the opportunity of experiencing the happiness of truely being loved.
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When a Simple Status just doesn't cover it:Married & Numb
What went wrong?Physical, sexual or emotional abuse:
How many years have you been divorced?n/a
Would you remarry?Yes
How many years were you married (or committed together)?22
At what age did you get divorced?n/a yet
How many children did you have with your ex-spouse?2
How many times have you been officially divorced?1
How many times have you been married?2
Education: High School
Religion: Christian / Other
Goal you would like to achieve this year: to become healthy
What type of relationship do you have with your ex-spouse: So so: we usually end up in a fight
Why am I here: Help
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