tbug
Gender: Female
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
Relationship Status: Considering Divorce / Breakup
Birthday: March 1st 2010
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Member Since: March 1st 2010
My Story:
I am taking all the blame for our divorce. I am wanting to stay in the relationship, but my husband is done. He threatened divorce in May 2009 but changed his mind and we went to counseling for 7 sessions. I also went to counseling for my social anxiety. This is the reason for our divorce, me not dealing with my social anxiety years ago. He says now he has to focus on himself and that he doesn't know how long it is going to take me to get control of my social anxiety, but that he doesn't have the time to give me anymore. I went to 7 sessions of counseling for my anxiety then quit. He said I didn't show commitment to changing and that he no longer wants to try. We have been together 10 years married for 6. I have cried, begged and pleaded with him but he says he is filing and I need to move on. I just keep hoping he will change his mind again and give me a chance to improve. I love him too much to just let go.
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When a Simple Status just doesn't cover it:Separated & Miserable
What went wrong?Money/Financial Concerns:, Change in Priorities, Lack of Commitment:, Failed expectations of spouse:
Would you remarry?No
How many years were you married (or committed together)?6
How many times have you been married?1
Education: High School
Religion: Christian / Other
Goal you would like to achieve this year: Further education
What type of relationship do you have with your ex-spouse: Good: no hard feelings
Why am I here: Help, Meet others in my situation, Vent frustration
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